Friday, September 2, 2016
When we lose a loved one; whether it be a friend, a spouse or a sibling our pain and sadness creates a void in our own lives especially when that person helped to influence who we are as unique individuals. That void has been with me since I learned of John's passing but have found some solace and peace in thinking of how his friendship and his presence made my life richer and fuller.
Before work and other commitments moved us geographically apart, John and I spent a lot of time together enjoying our teenage and early adult years. Through those years we were each others travelling companion and spent hours talking about whatever was important or trivial to us at the time. Three things that always stand out in my mind was the love he felt for his parents and family, his kindness and generosity, and his positive outlook on life. I truly admired John for those attributes along with his quick smile, his laughter, and his enjoyment of those around him. I also think he could have been a professional foosball player because he was that good.
After moving apart, we had the phone but in later years various health challenges had major impacts on his communication skills and emotions which made it difficult for John to maintain the closeness he wished for with the friends and family he loved. I hope all his friends and family who may read this recognize that those health challenges were the cause of his isolation. Somehow we persevered through those hardships he faced and kept our friendship alive until the end for which I am eternally grateful.
I know John is now at peace and Jane's and my thoughts are with his family and friends at this time of sadness but also I hope everyone will take time to celebrate the goodness and positive memories John brought into our lives.
God bless you John, we miss you.
